So much is bubbling up right now–inside and out! In this year of 2020 vision, “seeing” is taking on an entirely new meaning. Our non-judgment is being tested in ways we never thought possible. I find myself turning to the Universe asking,
You want me to accept what?
How could this be the Universe working perfectly?
Seriously, there’s more?!
And yet, I remember with each new breath that the Universe does not send us anything we cannot handle–that nothing is happening that is not for our highest learning, growth, or understanding.
We’re in the PhD program of learning to Love, and these exams are brutal.
Through this quarantine time coupled with uprising, shadows, and paradox I find myself shipped out to sea in the new ocean of the both/and with nothing but a compass and a fearless heart. I am being forced out of the cage of judgment and into the freedom of radical acceptance. Ways of black/white thinking (this phrase is taking on a whole new meaning!), and either/or decisions are becoming so painful that I am deliberately looking for a new way to see. I find my heart actively searching for relief from my own stubborn judgment. It’s saying,
“Thinking the world ‘should be different’ is too exhausting. I can’t live like this. There has to be another way!”
So we learn to love the unlovable–and it started with the unlovable me. I practice this in any and all ways that I can. This quarantine time has become my sandbox for imperfection–to let me play with what it feels like to do it wrong, to see it both ways, to hold space for love and joy and pain and disgust–even when it’s messy. To build trust with the Universe.
This was my last egg. I’m running late. I still can’t find the matching sock.
This is all hilariously true. Now turn that camera around and giggle to remember the absurdity!
I didn’t shave my legs. I want to wear shorts to the store today. I will feel embarrassed if someone notices.
I’m going to let it all be true. (Attention, shoppers!)
I don’t want to go to this event. They will be disappointed when I don’t show up. They might judge me.
I’m going to let it all be true.
I don’t understand where this person is coming from. I enjoy our time together and I love them.
I’m going to let it all be true.
Every moment that I choose it all, that I “let myself down” by “failing” my idea of “perfect,” I am also given the opportunity to hear the whisper from deep within myself and from the Universe,
“It’s all true, and I still love you.”
I don’t mean to test Love like that, but MAN does the Universe love us if we let it! This is how trust is built. With ourselves, with one-another, and with the world. The more I forgive myself, the more the Universe forgives me and the more I forgive others. The more I mess up and choose to love me anyways, the more I am free to love others when they mess up too.
And the paradox? I always achieve and attract more when I do this.
The two most common phrases I hear in my coaching sessions are:
“Wow, I didn’t think I was judgmental, but I guess I am!”
“I’ve never considered myself a victim, but I guess I do feel like one.”
It’s natural, it’s normal, and best of all these thoughts are here to heal you.
If you’re looking for freedom from judgment, wondering where the light will come from, or questioning what’s next–try out imperfection. The answer may be lingering right behind your judgment!
I dare you to do something imperfect this week–and love. every. second.
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My session with Kelsey was profoundly impactful. She helped me get underneath what I thought was important to me and down into the core of what I KNOW to be important and true. She held my hand down a labyrinth helping me work my way out of my head and into my heart (where the true meaning lies) and then back to my head to help me align my new vision and intuitions with my priorities and life code. She managed this through sincere and heartfelt listening and intentional questions. She prompted me through a stream of consciousness that was from ME (she did not impose her own beliefs but respected mine) and allowed me to develop in my own way- the way I was meant to. All this in 45 minutes. WOW! See for yourself what you may discover with a safe, trained listener by your side! Thank you Kelsey!
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